So before I share with you my finding of Pre-season Task #2 - Get Real - No More Excuses, this task has been taken over a few weeks, giving me time to whiteboard as many excuses as i have. I knew i was the queen of Excuses, BUT i have just realized, most of my excuses are internal ones - Excuses that are within my control to change.
Michelle reminded us all that I need to do this for myself, no one else can do it for me! (And from my excuses she is absolutely on the money!)
So the task was to write down all of our excuses and also write down a solution.. so here goes!
Internal Excuses (within my control to change)
1. I'm Too Tired - Go to bed earlier
2. I'll start tomorrow, next week - Time to get rid of the Bull Shit - Start now!! It is time to finish this once and for all (If I continue down this path - reality is - I may never get tomorrow!!)
3. Drinking alcohol is social norm ,and I am seen as the Party Girl - It is my body I am doing damage to - a couple of drinks is OK, however I can still have fun sober. Do Feb Fast - so friends have an excuse and then they can see what I have achieved - then tell them I respect my body and it is time to give back to it.
4. Can not be bothered, no motivation - Just include exercise as part of my day - Go into Robot Mode!! JFDI!!
5. Food and Drink is a social occasion and how I catch up with my mates - Plan my meals for the week, so I eat before I go out for catch ups. Arrange to catch up with them other ways e.g. bike rides or walks.
6. I have no control, when sweets are open I eat the whole block of chocolate or packet of biscuits - Plan my snacks and NEVER allow these foods into the house.
7. I have no control with morning teas and snacks at work - Plan my snacks and let the office know I am changing my lifestyle and do not want to be tempted.
8. I NEVER want to miss out - Accept that it OK to take time out - especially for myself.
9. I deserve it - I have been good food / exercise - This is what got me into my Overweight issue - usually the calaries I burn never equate to the food that I treat myself. Always ensure the treat is a small treat and that I have worked for it.
10. It’s a treat meal - Treat meals are just that - they are not treat Days or Weeks!!!! Get back on track the very next meal and have it planned for. Ensure exercise has been planned to account for the treat meal.
11. It is a special occasion (my birthday, mates birthday, new years eve, wedding) - See Treat meals.
12. I want hot food Comfort food (ie pasta hot chips) - Planning Planning Planning!! Usually I crave these foods when I am starving and I have not had breakfast or when I have not bought lunch in.
13. I'm Not a morning person - Set alarm for 5.45am EVERY weekday - have gym gear ready the night before. If required - sleep in it.
14. Long day at work (cannot be bothered, exercising or cooking) - Plan the week ahead - maybe use Sunday as a cook up day and pre prepare a few meals so they can just be zapped in the microwave. If food is already sorted then Robot mode can kick in for the exercise side
15. I need 10 hours sleep to function (So i can't exercise at 6am) - Go to bed earlier - set and alarm on the phone so that I am in bed by 9.30pm.
16. I don’t want to be exhausted for the rest of the day / night - see above (go to be earlier)
17. Too unfit to run - Consistency is the key, small steps to begin with and work on them to increase the intensity. Go at my own pace and listen to my body.
18. Lunchtime exercise (don't want to get sweaty to go back to work for the afternoon) - Get the exercise out of the way in the morning - so I can use lunchtime to relax.
19. My knees are too sore when I exercise due to my weight they hold up - Do exercises that take the load of the knees - Spin, cross trainer, swimming. If I train constantly I will improve and the pain with ease.
External Excuses (within my control to change)
1. It's too Hot - Get up and do exercise before the heat set in. Try using the exercise DVDs. Also try swimming
2. It's too Cold - Go to the Gym - I will soon warm up
3. It wet - Go to the Gym or try a DVD
4. Not enough time in the day - Get earlier and plan my day / week
5. Traveling interstate for work - Take dvd's and exercise gear with me. Plan meals that I can either take or buy when I get there
External Excuses (outside of my control to change)
1. Deadlines at work - Ensure food is planned for the week, so that it is one less thing to think about
2. Crohns Disease (joint pain, tiredness) - listen to my body - get more rest / sleep. Don’t over do it and burn the candle at both ends. Ensure I get a balanced diet. Try the bike or water activites when joints are inflamed.
3. No control (when dinner at friends houses or family and what they cook) - Offer to bring a course - enroll them in my new lifestyle. I can choose what goes into my mouth - I do not need to eat it - just because it is served up. I little white lie of I am not really hungry is not going to hurt them.
WOW... big deep breath......I will print these and post them on my wall to remind me that there is NO MORE EXCUSES... JFDI!!